HOW TO BE HAPPY – WHY SUCCESS DOESN’T MAKE YOU HAPPY (AND WHAT DOES INSTEAD) – PART 3

Carolin Soldo – How To Be Happy – Why Success Doesn’t Make You Happy (And What Does Instead) – Part 3

Hi there it’s Carolyn Soldo and back here with you and after watching this episode you will know why you are not feeling happy in your business and what you can do about it right now before we get started make sure you hit the bell and you subscribe to our channel so you always know when new episodes become available.

Right and are you probably wondering well Carolyn where is this all going to go and just give me the solution right tell me how I can feel happy in my business and also in my life and I’m not saying I have the ultimate answer if I did I would probably be happy every single day myself and very rich as well so I’m not saying I have the ultimate answer but I have learned a lot about myself and a lot about other people from working with so many people just like you so I can only tell you what I think and what might also work for you so thinking about your your happiness if if the ultimate goal is not those big goals.

So if it’s not the money, it’s not the house, it’s not the income, it’s not the same, it’s not the appreciation from other people. If those things aren’t just you know experiences in time and if they don’t lead to sustained happiness and fulfillment and joy in your life then what is it so if that’s not it maybe we need to look at the opposite and say what we really want is to feel awesome every single day, isn’t that true? But if you could feel great maybe not you know super excited and super happy but good and calm and satisfied and and peaceful right on a daily basis wouldn’t that make a big difference for you.

Isn’t that what it’s all about and then you can still hit those big goals but there’s no valley in between. There’s no big drop in between. There’s a lot more sustaining. You know easygoing flow happening between those goals that you will still be setting for yourself but you make your focus much more the daily living and the daily being then you know chasing after those big goals so you take a lot better care of yourself. You are much more aware of your thoughts. You’re much more aware of your days and how you spent those days and how you wake up and how you feel throughout your day and how you treat people and how you let things influence you too and with that, you will be able to achieve what I call emotional maturity, which to me is that is a maintained of a good vibration and a maintaining of you know you’ll being happy and being you know good every single day.

Essentially. and in order for you to do that we need to have you become aware of your toxic patterns because when you come off of these fake highs and you go back into your valley so to speak that’s when we begin to you know self-sabotage and our toxic patterns come up and so everybody has toxic patterns and it’s because of our paradigms and how we’ve been raised and past experiences and probably a lot more that I’m not even aware of. But I know that there are at least 10 different toxic patterns that I have been able to see in myself and other people and my clients and you need to become aware of those toxic patterns so that you can address them and you can begin to soothe them and minimize them and eventually maybe even overcome and eliminate them and that will help you lift your emotion and you can go from feeling angry, feeling frustrated, feeling hopeless, all the way up to feeling neutral then feeling you know excited, feeling like you’re anticipating great things, feeling like you’re expecting them to come and feeling like your world is pretty amazing no matter what’s going on so you’re able to ride the wave of life and business even if there’s you know sharks and even if there’s stuff happening every single day you’re able to like write it and be on top of it and you know master it and look down and still feel good no matter what happens.

And what we do at our big events is we go deep into those toxic patterns so if you’re someone that is not feeling sustains happiness in your business and you don’t know why and then it’s just longing this craving for more and you’ve hit big goals but then you can’t sustain them and you just don’t know exactly what you even want and and where you’re going anymore.

I’d love to invite you to come out to our big event that’s coming up and at that event we spent an entire day all day the first spend a mindset we spend on your success habits, your toxic patterns and also on emotional maturity and I do that before I even consider going into any strategy because giving you more strategy giving you more fixes and how truth will not help you with your happiness and I can get you to your big goals but I won’t be able to give you what you really want and what you really deserve which is your ongoing freedom, your ongoing fulfillment, your ongoing joy and then hitting even bigger goals and growing your business so that you’re not just a one-time wonder.

You can grow and scale your business to infinity if you want to but that’s only possible when your mind is in the right spot so that’s why we spend an entire day at our big event for passionate profits life on your mind and helping you identify your toxic patterns, helping you identify what you really want to accomplish what your goals and vision really is all about, why are you doing all of this maybe even setting some better goals for yourself something that will help you feel better and then once we have you in that powerful stage then we move on to day two and day three where it’s all about marketing programs, branding value propositions, lead generation sales. making money, building a team, and so much more.

All of these things are there for you but understand that you as the entrepreneur need to be ready for them. If you enjoy this episode make sure you give me a life below leave me a comment maybe share it with your friends on social media and then I’ll see you again next time.

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